There is a male ‘expert’
in the Romance Industry.
It is clear to me
he hates women.
Absolutely hates them.
But many female writers
don’t realize that
because
he’s not obvious about it.
He doesn’t go around
beating his chest,
telling women they should
go back to the kitchen.
He, instead,
quietly and constantly undermines
women.
A hugely successful female writer’s website
was hij@cked,
for example.
It was clear
the site was h@cked.
That has also been happening
to many high traffic sites
(and low traffic sites
like mine).
This male expert
posted that
she likely didn’t renew
her domain
in time.
What the f*ck?
Not renewing a domain
in time
is a junior jammer mistake
and it is quite difficult to do
unintentionally now.
Domain registries send out
plenty of warnings.
Renewals can be for decades.
I gave him
the benefit of the doubt
and told him it was likely a h@ck.
He didn’t delete or modify
his post.
Because he wanted to undermine
this female writer.
He wanted her to look foolish.
THAT is the move
of the average woman-hating a$$hole.
And it is d@mn difficult
to counter.
Because it is sneaky
and they leave themselves an out.
This a$$hat could tell folks
it COULD have been a domain renewal issue.
He was trying to be ‘nice’
and warn writers about it.
If the writer confronts him,
he’ll spin it
so it looks like she isn’t ‘grateful.’
The best tactic
I find
is to erase these people
from my life
as much as possible.
Because, if they have access to me,
they WILL undermine me.