When You Change

If I write outside
a certain reader favorite series,
my new stories
receive a flood of 1 star reviews
on release day.

Some readers think
if they 1 star my stories
in the new series,
I will return to the
reader favorite series
and focus all my efforts there.

(I’m perverse
so their 1 starring actually does
the opposite.
It pushes me to write more stories
in the new series.)

They are punishing me
for trying something new.

Some people don’t like it
when we change.

They don’t care
if we change for the better,
if the change makes us happier
or healthier.

Because their grievance isn’t about us.

It is about them,
about the effort they have to
put in
to adjust to the new us.

Well… f*ck them.
Focus on YOUR happiness,
YOUR version of success.

Make the changes
you want to make
and ignore the resisters.

It Is Our Choice

A guy (according to his profile)
accused me yesterday
of wasting his time
with my book (product)-related posts.

The thing is…
HE was following ME
on social media.

We weren’t having
a discussion.
He literally found me
on the internet,
chose to follow me,
to read my posts.

As Seth Godin
shares

“Even though
it seems as though
the world is trying
to steal our focus
and our energy,
ultimately,
in each moment,
it’s our choice to make.”

We make more choices
than we believe we do,
which means
we can often unmake them
also.

If you don’t like
your current situation,
change it.

(And if you don’t like
someone’s posts,
unfollow them.)

It is as simple
and as challenging
as that.