I met someone lately
who had very rough hands
and short fingernails.
I asked her
if she was a gardener.
She was surprised
I knew that.
Most dedicated gardeners
I know
have very rough hands
and short fingernails.
Those are signs
of dedication
to that role.
A food lover buddy
tells me
when he sees an immaculate home kitchen
with worn and/or stained
kitchen towels,
he knows someone in that home
loves to cook or bake.
There are often
quiet signs of expertise.
Know them.
Look for them.
Don’t be ashamed
if you sport them.