Ending Bad Partnerships

The newsletter service I’m with
(MailCh*mp)
is telling me
an error is on my side.
It isn’t.

But I can’t be bothered
to figure out
how to fix it for them.

Because I’m closing
my Romance Novel Business
in two years
and I won’t be working
with this partner
after that point.

I can work around
this error
for 23 more newsletters.

One of the upsides
of closing a business
is it forces us
to end bad partnerships.

We all have some of those.
Maybe it is a delivery service
that is always late.
Or a supplier
who gets one thing wrong
in every order.
Or a customer
who returns everything
he buys.

These partnership cost us money,
time, happiness.

Don’t wait
for your business to close
to end bad partnerships.

End them now.

If You Won’t Change Their Minds, Stop Talking

I chatted with a reader
who hated romance novels.
She didn’t believe
happy was possible
for most people
and that included
imaginary people.

I presented points
but eventually
I realized…
I would never change her mind.
She would never believe
happiness is possible.

So I stopped talking.
I was wasting her time
and I was wasting my time
by talking about it.

We chatted about other things.
I realized I could never be friends
with someone
who didn’t believe I could be happy.
And we went our separate ways.

We don’t have to convince
everyone.
We don’t have to sell
our products/services/ideas/stances
to everyone.

Some people will never buy
and that’s okay
because there are
over 7 billion people
in the world.

We don’t need that sale.
We can stop talking.