This is the flip side
of yesterday’s post
and it is admittedly mostly
a female business builder issue.
The worry is
“He’ll leave me
if I succeed,
if I do better
than he does.”
Did you HIDE
that you were
a strong, intelligent,
driven, passionate woman
when you first met your loved one?
Have you stopped
treating him
like your equal,
like your partner?
Did you answer
“No” to both questions?
Then you shouldn’t have
much to worry about.
Yes, some prehistoric guys
will try to give
your loved one a rough time.
They will try to put him in
the subordinate role
(because that is what they do
to their unfortunate loved ones).
That can be prevented
by stressing
that our loved ones
ARE our partners,
ARE our equals.
It takes strong men
to partner with strong women.
I recognize my husband
as the bada$$ he is
and I ensure everyone else
knows that too.
Your loved one
won’t leave you
merely because
you’ve become successful.
You’re partners.
Your success is his success.