Any time I speak with a group
of newer writers,
the conversation turns
to support.
“My mom/husband/sister/former school teacher
doesn’t support my writing dreams.”
Why do you give a shit?
The dream is yours.
It isn’t your loved one’s dream.
None of my family members
read my books.
My hubby doesn’t read my books.
Very few of my close friends
read my books.
That hasn’t hindered me.
But-but-but you WANT their support,
you say.
You want their support?
Earn it.
Finish the book.
Sell the book.
Win an award.
Make a bestseller list.
This thinking applies to entrepreneurs also.
Fabricate a prototype of your product.
Make a sale.
Snag some media coverage.
DO something.
If you want your loved ones
to expend effort
and support you,
expend some of your own effort
first.
Give them a reason
to support you.