Few of us
get a new skill perfect
the first time
we try it.
We KNOW that.
We expect it.
We don’t need others
to point out
how imperfect our first try was.
What we need is encouragement
to try again.
“Transitions and change imply,
by definition,
that people are trying something
for the first time.
When your little child
tried out her first steps
and fell after the third one,
you didn’t offer a performance appraisal.
You hugged her, made a big fuss,
took a video,
and called the grandparents.
Offer the same to adults
who are trying something
for the first time.
Truth be told,
they are feeling like kids at that moment.”
Don’t critique that first try.