Both are bad.
A conversation is supposed
to be two-way,
anything other is a monologue.
Although I try to say as little as possible
because the less I talk,
the more I learn,
I DO talk.
I ask questions.
I facilitate discussion.
Why?
Because as
James Morris in
The Art Of Conversation
shares
“… realize that it is bad manners
to monopolize a conversation,
it’s equally bad manners
not to talk enough.”
No wallflowers.
Hold up your side
of the conversation.