Being too aggressive
is a common fear,
especially amongst women.
We want people to like us.
People don’t like aggressive people.
Bullsh**
People don’t like people who aren’t nice.
You can be aggressive
and still be ‘nice.’
You can be aggressive
and be polite,
good natured, kind, giving.
I am an aggressive person.
Some people don’t like me
because I’m aggressive
but then,
some people don’t like me
because I write romance novels
or because I wear suits
or because I’m a woman.
Being afraid of someone not liking you
is a silly reason
to let your dreams die.
Darren Hardy has a post
on how you lose 1 out of 5 sales
if you’re too aggressive
(but you land the other 4).